Negativity - A Valueless Substance
Tuesday, July 22nd, 2008Forgive me – it’s been 12 days since my last confession…I mean, submission; and I have no excuse.
During a recent trip designed/intended to be joyful and relaxing, I heard such a great deal of negative comments and remarks from fellow attendees that it got me to thinking about the value of negativity.
The majority of these remarks I heard were complaints and criticisms about one thing or another (i.e. how something worked, how someone looked, the way something tasted or was presented, etc). Now don’t think for a moment that I was completely innocent – I was guilty of offering my share of negativity right along with the rest. As a matter of fact, I can probably be just as or more negative than most unless I choose and determine not to do so.
And that’s what I did.
At some point I began to realize what a waste of time, effort and energy my speaking or being negative really was. Awareness of this wasn’t some new G.E. light bulb that went off in my mind, but it became so pronounced to me that I began to be appalled by it. At one point the negativity I was hearing became so incessant that I tried to mentally dislocate my ability to hear it.
My bottom line up front determination/revelation is that negativity in any form has no value. It has substance, but no value. It cannot be used to convey love or appreciation, build-up or encourage, forgive or help, honor, renew or restore or any other positive-type things you or I can think of.
That’s because it’s… negative…… and it has no value.
In light of this my dear and wonderfully appreciated reader, I ask that you enter an agreement with me; let’s intently purpose to strive to not:
Add to negativity Behold negativity Condone negativity
Display negativity Express negativity Foster negativity
Give out negativity Harbor negativity Initiate negativity
Justify negativity Kindle negativity Listen to negativity
Mimic negativity Nest negativity Operate with negativity
Promote negativity Qualify negativity React negatively to negativity
Speak with negativity Teach negativity Unite with negativity
Visit negativity Wallow in negativity (e)Xude negativity
Yield to negativity be Zealous for negativity
It’s much better to be positive. Positivity has value.
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